I cannot understand how many of our community members keep on going. They level of pain in their lives is incomprehensible. One of our community members lost her daughter in a car accident a few months ago. As tragic as it is, that can happen to anyone. However, she showed a remarkable level of resilience at the time. Then in the last few days her partner’s son was murdered. She was supporting him through his grief. Perhaps she came to help out at Oasis this week to take her mind off of her circumstances for just a few hours. However, that kind of loss is something that is extremely rare for most of us to experience. But for some of our community members, such an event is not unheard of. I repeat: how do they keep on going?