Clients have often told me that one of my greatest strengths is that I am focused, task orientated and efficient. One of my greatest weaknesses is that I am focused, task orientated and efficient. Last Tuesday I was busily overseeing the clean up so that we could be ready for the Bible study at 7:00. As I was wiping off a table cloth one of the group of guys talking at the next table said “You are making me feel that we have to get up and leave. We are conversating here.” And he was right. I immediately sat down with them and chatted. Others in the cleanup detail surely thought that I was not carrying my weight. But conversating was more important.